In 2009 I did a solo travelling experience around Vietnam 🇻🇳 and I wrote a diary while I was there. In this episode, over 16 years later, I read out the diary, follow my descriptions of each part of my trip, explore how I was feeling at that time of my life, go off on some comedy and English teaching tangents, and take a journey into the past, across a very different country.
[972] I talk with multilingual actor Ivan Doan about his multicultural background, his learning of languages and his work as an actor. Ivan shares his insights and experiences of learning English, dealing with different accents in film & TV roles, and the importance of mindset and discipline in his life. There are plenty of language learning insights in this episode, which I summarise at the end. Full transcript available.
An 11-point list of practical advice for learning English inspired by this conversation.
1. Learning through doing, not just studying
Use English for real things. Ivan’s English really improved when he started making projects in English (web series, acting work, talking to people), not just studying grammar.
Make English the tool, not the subject. Start a small project: a vlog, a diary, an Instagram account, a DnD group, movie scene re-enactments – anything that requires English.
Theory helps, but it’s not the engine. Grammar explanations are useful, but they’re not what makes you fluent. Real communication is.
2. Multimodal learning: use your whole body & brain
Don’t reduce English to rules + word lists. When Ivan was with the Mormons or on set, he learned from body language, tone of voice, facial expressions, rhythm, context, not just words.
Watch people, not just subtitles. When you watch something in English, pay attention to:
how people look at each other
when they pause
what their hands/face are doing when they say something important
Combine skills. Listen + read + speak + move. For example, repeat a line while copying the actor’s body language and facial expression.
3. Listening & repetition are superpowers
Re-listen on purpose. Take a podcast episode or YouTube clip and:
Listen once for general meaning.
Listen again and note unknown words/phrases.
Look them up.
Listen a third time and catch those items in context.
Notice “repeat offenders”. If a word or chunk keeps appearing, it’s a sign: you probably need it. Put it on a list.
Make targeted vocab lists. Like Ivan did for filmmaking, you can make lists for your world: tech, business, medicine, design, gaming, etc.
4. Discipline beats talent
You don’t need to be “gifted at languages”. Ivan’s message is clear: people think he’s “special”, but in reality, discipline and repetition are doing most of the work.
Be stubborn. Let it bother you (in a good way) that you don’t understand a phrase yet. Go back to it. Again. And again.
Small, realistic goals. For example:
“I want to be able to have a 10-minute small-talk conversation without switching to my language.”
“I want to understand one specific podcast episode without subtitles.”
“I want to tell one story about my life in English clearly.”
Basic conversation – you can talk about everyday things.
More advanced conversation – opinions, stories, feelings, more nuance.
Improvisation – you can react in real time with no preparation.
6. Accents, rhythm & sounding natural
First: learn to hear the accent. You can’t produce what you can’t hear. Choose one accent (e.g. London, General American) and really listen to it.
Find your “accent twin”. Pick a native speaker:
similar age
same gender
whose voice feels close to your natural voice Use them as your model.
Create an “accent map”. Notice:
Which vowels are different from yours?
How do they stress words?
What is the rhythm (fast/slow, chunky/smooth)?
Rhythm & word stress are often more important than perfect vowels. BAna-na vs baNAna can be the difference between confusion and clarity.
Shadowing works. Play 1–2 sentences, then:
say them with the speaker,
match their timing, stress, and melody,
repeat several times until it feels comfortable.
7. It’s okay to exaggerate (caricature as a training tool)
Overdo it first, then calm it down. Like an actor, you can:
exaggerate the British or American intonation
really push the stress and melody Then slowly bring it back to something natural.
This is not “fake”; it’s training. As with acting, you push beyond your comfort zone, then refine.
8. Identity, culture & letting yourself change
To speak like an English speaker, you must allow yourself to “borrow” a new identity. That might feel weird: “This isn’t me.” But that flexibility is part of real fluency.
Different cultures, different communication rules. British politeness isn’t necessarily “fake”; Russian directness isn’t necessarily “rude”. They’re different systems.
Adapting ≠ betraying your culture. You can still be 100% you and also learn to play by local rules when you’re speaking English.
9. Talk to yourself – a lot
Self-talk is powerful, not crazy. Walk around your flat narrating what you’re doing in English, or:
rehearse future conversations,
re-tell a story you heard,
argue with yourself about something.
The goal is to stop translating. Like Ivan said, it’s like changing gears in a car: once you’re “in English gear”, you just drive.
10. Treat English like a role you inhabit
Think like an actor. When you speak English:
step into the “role” of an English-speaking version of you,
use your voice, but with English rhythm and intonation,
add the body language and facial expressions that match.
Use emotion. Don’t just say the words; feel them. This makes you remember the language and sound more authentic.
11. Inspiration: you can do this
Messages implied by Ivan’s story:
You can start with school English that isn’t great and end up working in English internationally.
You don’t need a perfect method; you need consistent action, curiosity, and the courage to interact.
Being “from somewhere else” is not a weakness; it’s often your superpower – a different perspective, more empathy, and a richer identity.
A description of my recent family holiday to Norway 🇳🇴, including rambling about how I can’t stand beach holidays 🏖️, chasing my son around different international airports 🏃, visiting Oslo ⛴️, Bergen 🏠, fjords 🚤 and mountains 🏔️. Edward Munch’s The Scream 😱, staying in a cabin with no hot water, shower or washing machine, swimming in a freezing lake 🥶, catching a trout 🎣 and driving an electric Jaguar 🐆(that’s a car). Includes a PDF with vocabulary in context, definitions, full transcript, and vocabulary quiz.
Peter, my old flatmate from Japan, is back on the podcast after his previous appearance 11 years ago! We chat about travelling experiences, teaching English in Malaysia and Japan, dealing with jet lag and culture shock, doing stand-up comedy abroad, and some of the funny, strange, and even weird experiences we’ve had while travelling. A relaxed, wide-ranging conversation full of stories, laughs, and cultural insights.
This episode features a conversation with Zdenek about fears and anxieties experienced in everyday life. We explore common fears such as driving, flying, culture shock, language learning and public speaking. Listen for stories of Luke’s fear of Paris cafes ☕️, airport anxiety ✈️, Luke’s dramatic scooter ride in Nha Trang 🛵, Zdenek’s fears of Vietnamese roads and driving 🛣️, Luke’s recent cycling accident in Paris 💥, Zdenek’s encounter with a London police officer 👮♂️, nerves about teaching 😳, and more.
The PDF worksheet offers a vocabulary list from the conversation, with definitions, examples, and quizzes and a full transcript to help you boost your English with the episode.
Sarah Donnelly comes back onto LEP to catch up and to tell us about her stand-up special, now available to watch on YouTube, and to do a British English vs American English pronunciation quiz.
Sarah’s show is called The Only American in Paris and we discuss some of the themes of the show – the real experience of being a US citizen living in Paris, the Netflix show Emily in Paris, cultural differences, learning French, plus a pronunciation quiz to help you compare UK and US English.
When Walaa was first on this podcast in episode 703 she talked about living in Syria as a student during the civil war (or people’s revolution) but at that time she felt she could not talk in detail about the situation. Now that the Assad regime is no longer in control of Syria, Walaa feels she can talk more candidly about what it was like to live near Damascus during those days. Walaa’s descriptions are both shocking and moving. This is the topic of this episode, which is part 2 of a two-part series.
This is a listener-generated episode, meaning that the content is mostly written by listeners of this podcast. In this one I read out various comments and messages from listeners who have improved their English with the podcast. They describe the progress they’ve made and how they did it. Expect lots of success stories and plenty of advice for improving your English in 2025.
By popular demand I have chosen to publish this episode! In 2002 I ended up stuck in a Japanese hospital feeling very ill and confused. I ended up staying there for about two weeks. During my stay I wrote a diary nearly every day. In this episode I read from my diaries, share my personal experience with you and explain a few bits of vocabulary.
Martin Aaron is an old friend of mine from the days when I taught English in London. In this episode we chat about being an English teacher, travelling to different countries, the status of English in other places, how native English speakers (don’t) learn languages, stories of learning French in school, and Martin’s memories of boarding school.
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